The waking becomes unreal
We wake up in reality, only when we realize, the witness of the three states, is not the physical but formless.
The individual experiences we are experiencing within the waking experience, is mere mirage, to the formless witness. Thus we have to realize the fact that, we are many in the mirage, but in reality we are one in essence.
It takes time to learn and understand and assimilate and realize on the formless base due to the inherited conditioning of viewing and judging the worldview, on the physical base. Thus it is necessary to realize the waking [mirage] is and object, to the true self or Ataman.